I'm starting to get annoyed now.
My arachnophobia is starting to interfere with my wii gaming. :(
Can't i shoot zombies without worrying about spiders??
what the frak?
29 July 2008
25 July 2008
amor
This is going to be a very annoying post for most people. Sorry in advance...
This week has been a very tumultuous week for relationships. I've been counseling people left and right. I'm happy to do it, after all I've had more than my share of fucked up relationships and sleepless nights crying over a broken heart and if i didn't have my friends and family around me i might have gone mad. So this isn't a complaint about being there for people. But when you hear these kinds of problems and are in a relationship yourself, it stands to reason that you'd reflect on the health of your own love life.
Gavin and i have been together for almost three years now. It started quick when we met at the dojo. We moved in together about six months later. We're in a committed relationship and have plans for the future, you know, that whole deal. We've had some fights but when I stop and think about it most of our arguments end up with us laughing. That's if it's a real argument...which most of the time it's not. It'll be just one of us being in a touchy mood and needing to unwind. Nothing some sex or a stupid movie or cuddling can't solve. Maybe it's because of our personalities. We're very different when it comes to a lot of stuff. I'm social, he's generally not...I enjoy going to clubs every so often and he prefers staying home and having a beer with some friends and playing a game or watching a movie. Some of the music he likes sounds like noise to me and some the music I like sounds trite to him. But we're both non-confrontational. We rather not argue if we can help it, and we tend to realise when one of us is having a bad day and squash things early before they get out of hand. And when two people are like that...arguments are few and far between. We both rather hold each other than fight.
Now, I'm not going to say our relationship is perfect. But it's the calmest and happiest that I've ever been when it comes to relationships. I guess what I'm trying to say is that hearing about others' problems with their significant other makes me appreciate my own relationship all the more. Totally obnoxious, i know.
It's just been a long week and I feel extremely grateful to be with someone i'm so in love with and who understands me and makes me smile...
This week has been a very tumultuous week for relationships. I've been counseling people left and right. I'm happy to do it, after all I've had more than my share of fucked up relationships and sleepless nights crying over a broken heart and if i didn't have my friends and family around me i might have gone mad. So this isn't a complaint about being there for people. But when you hear these kinds of problems and are in a relationship yourself, it stands to reason that you'd reflect on the health of your own love life.
Gavin and i have been together for almost three years now. It started quick when we met at the dojo. We moved in together about six months later. We're in a committed relationship and have plans for the future, you know, that whole deal. We've had some fights but when I stop and think about it most of our arguments end up with us laughing. That's if it's a real argument...which most of the time it's not. It'll be just one of us being in a touchy mood and needing to unwind. Nothing some sex or a stupid movie or cuddling can't solve. Maybe it's because of our personalities. We're very different when it comes to a lot of stuff. I'm social, he's generally not...I enjoy going to clubs every so often and he prefers staying home and having a beer with some friends and playing a game or watching a movie. Some of the music he likes sounds like noise to me and some the music I like sounds trite to him. But we're both non-confrontational. We rather not argue if we can help it, and we tend to realise when one of us is having a bad day and squash things early before they get out of hand. And when two people are like that...arguments are few and far between. We both rather hold each other than fight.
Now, I'm not going to say our relationship is perfect. But it's the calmest and happiest that I've ever been when it comes to relationships. I guess what I'm trying to say is that hearing about others' problems with their significant other makes me appreciate my own relationship all the more. Totally obnoxious, i know.
It's just been a long week and I feel extremely grateful to be with someone i'm so in love with and who understands me and makes me smile...
24 July 2008
16 July 2008
frontlines and rome
I'm not a violent person.. but recently...
Having finished GTA we, ages after it's release, finally began playing gavins game. It's been fun but after being used to the auto aiming of GTA i'm sucking ass. It's funny though, I've never played a game like this before. It's war, you kill people and complete objectives. Period. Just Never realized explosions can be so satisfying.
Also, we've gotten into watching Rome (my review: Pullo Rocks)to quench our BSG withdrawal. Blood, sex, more blood, beheadings, crucifixions and mass stabbings.
Why am i becoming so violent in my recreational activities? Does this mean something? Or does it mean that i need to get out more?
:\ hmmm
Having finished GTA we, ages after it's release, finally began playing gavins game. It's been fun but after being used to the auto aiming of GTA i'm sucking ass. It's funny though, I've never played a game like this before. It's war, you kill people and complete objectives. Period. Just Never realized explosions can be so satisfying.
Also, we've gotten into watching Rome (my review: Pullo Rocks)to quench our BSG withdrawal. Blood, sex, more blood, beheadings, crucifixions and mass stabbings.
Why am i becoming so violent in my recreational activities? Does this mean something? Or does it mean that i need to get out more?
:\ hmmm
13 July 2008
tatuaje
So, I've done it. I've gotten my new tattoo.
I've wanted to get a carnation for a while but was always stuck on the design. Just having a flower seemed too simple so I ended up going with carnation petals surrounded by a mehndi inspired design. It pulled it all together nicely i think, goes with the very symmetrical stamp-like look of my last piece..the chakana.
I don't know whether it was because of the fact that i could see what he was doing or the location but for some reason..OUCH. Seriously, ouuch. Thankfully i had gav and adalhi there chatting with me take my mind off it a bit. It actually also helped if i was looking at him do it. Oh, and 'he' is Patrick over at East Side Ink. He's awesome, go to him.
It's been a couple days and since the lines are so thin it's almost completely healed already. Woohoo!
I've wanted to get a carnation for a while but was always stuck on the design. Just having a flower seemed too simple so I ended up going with carnation petals surrounded by a mehndi inspired design. It pulled it all together nicely i think, goes with the very symmetrical stamp-like look of my last piece..the chakana.
I don't know whether it was because of the fact that i could see what he was doing or the location but for some reason..OUCH. Seriously, ouuch. Thankfully i had gav and adalhi there chatting with me take my mind off it a bit. It actually also helped if i was looking at him do it. Oh, and 'he' is Patrick over at East Side Ink. He's awesome, go to him.
It's been a couple days and since the lines are so thin it's almost completely healed already. Woohoo!
11 July 2008
ice is awesome
So they decided to get us a new fridge here at work. The fancy kind that makes ice and gives you filtered water on the door.
I'm VERY happy about this. I'm not sure how many people out there know this (gavin and.. yeah, gavin :P) but i have a habit of chewing on ice a lot. It makes a good snack and there's something completely satisfying about the the crunching sound.
Also a good way to curb my oral fixation now that i don't smoke. OK, i don't smoke about 90% of the time...ANYway...yay ice!
I'm VERY happy about this. I'm not sure how many people out there know this (gavin and.. yeah, gavin :P) but i have a habit of chewing on ice a lot. It makes a good snack and there's something completely satisfying about the the crunching sound.
Also a good way to curb my oral fixation now that i don't smoke. OK, i don't smoke about 90% of the time...ANYway...yay ice!
09 July 2008
doodle dee..doodle dummmmmmmm
So i havnt posted in a bit..
Not thing much happening...
Work.. same
family.. same
I'm getting my new tattoo on friday.. i'm totally excited!! Scared though.. i've never had a tat that was clearly visible.. back of neck.. hidden 90% of the time..
lower back...never scene by anyone but gavin...
So this next one is gonna be totally out there for the world to see all the time..
eepp! :D
What else... oh, gavin got me the R4 card for my DS so that i would DL Colors. i've been playing with that alot recently.. stuff is posted here and on flickr..
OK. back to work..
I will try to post more often..not that.. anyone.. is .. reading this.. heh
Not thing much happening...
Work.. same
family.. same
I'm getting my new tattoo on friday.. i'm totally excited!! Scared though.. i've never had a tat that was clearly visible.. back of neck.. hidden 90% of the time..
lower back...never scene by anyone but gavin...
So this next one is gonna be totally out there for the world to see all the time..
eepp! :D
What else... oh, gavin got me the R4 card for my DS so that i would DL Colors. i've been playing with that alot recently.. stuff is posted here and on flickr..
OK. back to work..
I will try to post more often..not that.. anyone.. is .. reading this.. heh
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